Strong Circle
Strong Inner Game Is Very Important For Social Circle Game
College game is different from cold approach pick up. Most guys do not recognize the need to adhere to the rules of the social group, and therefore gaming on campus works against them over time. This is because people can see through your pick up charade, and they can tell that you are primarily interested in seducing girls. Therefore at best, you are labelled as a player, at worst, you are the weird guy who uses scripted lines like that guy on the VH1 show.
The first premise of social circle game, is that cold approach pick up is not the most effective strategy, however, not only is cold approach bad for social circle game, having weak inner game probably does more damage than cold approach itself.
In a cold approach setting, an interaction with a woman might last 20 minutes to an hour before you get her phone number etc. During that time, you can "fake" not having strong inner game. The right voice tone and body language is usually enough to get you through an interaction.
In cold approach game, you primarily have to deal with her reality, and yours. In social circle game, there's an entirely new dynamic to deal with. In every social circle interaction there is a clash of three realities: hers, yours and the social group's reality...
Most people's realities are weaker than their social group's reality. What I mean, is that if the social group has a view that you are a player, then she will think you are too.
Possibly the biggest cure to a player reputation, is to strengthen your reality. I don't just mean to stop caring what others think; you must internalize on the deepest level defining yourself by your own personal standards and not the judgements of other people. Stop defining yourself based on external stimuli.
If you are not fully sure of who you are, then on some level, you are defining yourself based on the social group's view of you. While a reputation on campus as a player can be because you run around campus "gaming", it is also typically a clear sign that you have weak inner game.
If you have a strong reality, and you have the unwavering belief that you are NOT a player, but a cool high status guy who deserves to talk to whomever you want, then she will become an ambassador for you when she returns to her social group, and she will become one of your strongest defenders.
If you have a weak reality, and you are concerned about being seen feel the need to defend yourself when being accused of being a player, when she leaves your presence and rejoins her social group, she will feel very weird, and she more than likely will stop talking to you.
If you have a player reputation on campus consider this:
1. Are you actually coming off as a player? Do you actually believe you are a player
2. Or do people treat you like a player, and you act more like a player because you define yourself based on the opinions of others.
I think the best way to meet the hottest college girls is through their social circle, because college is a big social group. There are rules to observe that do not apply in cold approach. If you want to learn more about social circle game, check out my blog!
About the Author
Caleb Clayton is a professional dating coach and social circle expert. He is the author of, "Social Circle Game: A Guide To Dating And Social Mastery," He consults guys one on one and helps them build a large social circle, make more friends, and date more women. Learn more about social circle game at http://www.TheCollegeCupids.com.
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